One of the biggest issues with getting a girl to have s-ex with you for the first time is the trepidation associated with it.
One wrong move and it could tear a big split in the relationship.
Use these ten steps to get a girl to have s-ex with you and you
really should have no trouble arousing her or having sex with her.
But if she does hesitate at any point, back away and apologize for rushing it. You may not have timed your moves to perfection.
Get these ten moves right, and she’ll be more than happy to have sex with you!
#1 Let her see your great side. If you want to
have sex with a girl, you definitely have to be good enough to get her
attention. If she thinks you’re desirable and everything she wants in a
great guy, half your work’s cut out for you already.
#2 Let her know you’re interested in her. Talk to
her, spend time with her, and let her catch you staring at her
discreetly now and then. Make her wonder if you’re interested in her
without revealing too much.
If you ask her out without making her like you first, she’ll lose
the excitement of the mysterious relationship. Make her wonder what’s on
your mind and you’ll make her fall in love with you without even asking
her out.
#3 Get out of the friend zone. Unless you’re
dating her already, the friend zone is a scary place to be. Friends
don’t have sex with each other and they avoid getting sexually attracted
to each other. Be her friend, but don’t be just another friend who’s
got no sexual interest in her. Make it clear that you find her
attractive and sexy.
Tease her sexually, compliment her outfit with sexy remarks and
talk dirty with her. Both of you may be friends, but let her feel the
sexual tension when you’re around her.
#4 Spend more time with her. If you want to have
sex with a girl, the only time you can work your magic is by getting
some alone time with her. You need to flirt sexually and make her feel
comfortable to be with you. But you can’t do that when there are other
friends around.
Behave normally when there are other friends with her, but the
second they walk away, say something like, “whew… now I get to spend
some alone time with this sexy girl…” or something else that makes it
clear that you find her attractive in a more-than-just-friends kind of
way.
#5 Go out with her. You don’t have to fix a date
to take her out. Grab lunch together at work or help her run an errand
now and then. By doing that, you’re already taking the place of her
boyfriend in her mind.
But always remember to keep the sexual excitement on a high. Or she’d just look at you as a friend.
#6 Touch her. And excite her. The touch is a very
powerful way to send the right signals across without seeming desperate.
Look for ways to touch her arm or clasp her hand at the opportune
moment. The more you touch her delicately and sensually, the more
sexually turned on she’d get.
#7 Invite her to your place. Invite her to your
pad, or get invited back to her place. You’ve built the sexual tension
already. She knows you’re not just a friend, and she definitely knows
you’re attracted to her already. By getting comfortable in each other’s
places, it’s taking you one step closer to her bedroom and into her
pants. After all, if you’re going to get a girl to have sex with you
soon, you need to make her feel comfortable with you in each other’s
private spaces.
#8 Give her a few sneak peeks. So she thinks
you’re a nice guy who’s attracted to her. But that’s really not enough.
You need to arouse her and force her to take little glances at your sexy
side.
Look away from her and stretch casually when you have a hard on
inside your jeans. Let her catch a sneak peek of your obliques and your
rather low trousers when you’re changing your shirt at your place.
Always look away when you’re flaunting your body to her. It gives her
enough time to admire you sexually without the fear of getting caught.
These moves will involuntarily make her get sexually attracted to you
and desire you.
#9 Watch a movie together. Go out on a date or
stay back at home and watch a movie. A movie involves a few hours of
quiet time where both of you sit really close to each other. This is
where you can touch her ever so slightly with your arm or your foot. Do
it the right way and be patient, the chemistry can be electrifying. If
you want to seduce a girl, absentmindedly graze your arm against hers
with the slightest of touches while sitting next to her. It’ll turn her
on before you know it!
#10 Arouse her the right way. If you want to know
how to get a girl to have sex with you, you really need to remember that
all the focus is on sexually exciting her and arousing her into making
out with you. Never seem pushy, instead play it safe and slow instead of
going too fast.